“𝐈’𝐦 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐲! 𝐌𝐲 𝐡𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐥𝐨𝐭 𝐒𝐄𝐗𝐈𝐄𝐑 𝐧𝐨𝐰!”
I have a story that I want to share that happened more than 15 years ago, from a mom client of mine.
And dads, if you want this for your wife – read on too 
Sharing with you a story of how my client – a pretty missus who seemed to be so reserved and uptight, shared with me how her husband now finds her a lot sexier than before they got married and had kids!
Before this, she used to be so conscious of what her partner thinks after gaining weight from the beginning of motherhood to when her babies grew to be the playful and clingy toddlers that they are now.
Motherhood can be stressful. Especially at an age where her kids seem to need her all the time, she couldn’t find the time to eat properly and regularly do physical activities such as jogging every morning, let alone sign up for a gym membership. Her single friends seem to be in good shape – and thinking that what she endures is “normal” for every mother, she let the unhealthy lifestyle get the best of her.
Busy mornings.
Hectic day at work.
Exhausted after-work evenings where there’s little time and energy for quality time with kids.
By the time she goes to bed with her partner, the fire seems to easily die down. And it’s getting worse over the years. Is this really how it should go?
Although her hubby reassures her that he loves her no matter how she looks, at the back of her head, she wonders if her husband still finds her sexy. Because she’s finding a difficult time finding out herself.
“I used to have an hourglass figure. Maybe all of these quick fixes would have worked if I’m not a busy mother at all. It’s all my fault. I’m never going to be “sexy” and slim again.”
Of course, she has tried to solve the problem. Several times actually.
Quick fixes, magic pills, diet shakes, meal plans – you name it. She has tried almost everything try and lose the almost 20kg of excess fat she’s carrying for more than 7 years since the birth of their firstborn. She even considered surgery.
You could say I was one of her last resort. She’s one of the people who responded to the form on my website. And upon hearing her story during our appointment, one of the first things I told her was “It’s not your fault.”
She loves her kids, she loves taking care of her family and there is certainly nothing wrong with that. But mums, you all need to realize that you got to take care of yourself too. Self-love and self-awareness are extremely important in every process of change.
While this client of mine had lost weight (2, 3 kg at most) over that course of 7 years, it almost always goes up immediately.
At the beginning of her third month with me as her coach, she was already back to her hourglass figure and the best thing is: her quality time with kids definitely improved as she’s now have more energy to play with them, she doesn’t feel lethargic after coming home from work, and her husband definitely thinks she’s now a lot more sexy than when they first met!
All throughout this experience, she realised that more than getting back the body that she wants, her decision to finally take a step back and finally change towards a healthy lifestyle eventually paid off a thousand times.
A happier family.
A not boring married life with husband.
Great confidence and energy.
She’s never felt this sexy and there’s no stopping her.
Kudos to this client of mine! Here’s to more SEXY moms out there!
As a body transformation coach, I am trained in psychology at postgraduate and master degree levels. I’m also trained in NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming). These important pieces of the puzzle in body transformation are extremely important in order to see sustained changes in your body.
Fat loss is not just about exercise and nutrition – that is easy, once you know the basic principles of how to raise your metabolism smartly. In fact, what you need is just 10 minutes of time for exercise at home, THAT IS IT.
I’ve coached more hundreds, if not thousands of people to help them achieve a healthier body.
If you’d like some help to get the body that you want and sustain it, feel free to drop me a PM 🙂